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Sunday, February 28, 2010

Inspirational People



Kevin Laue and Kelly Knox are two individuals whose's stories are very similar to Kyla's.

When Kyla gets older and asks about her arm and says things like "no one else looks like me," etc., I will share these individual's stories with her. She will be able to see that she is not the only person who was born like her, and will hopefully look to them for inspiration.

Kevin Laue is a basketball player who received a scholarship to play Division I basketball for Manhattan College. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kevin_Laue

Kelly Knox is a british model who won Britain's Missing Top Model.

Saturday, February 27, 2010

Friday, February 26, 2010

What is Amniotic Band Syndrome?

Good question!



Many, including myself, have, or had no idea what Amniotic Band Syndrome is. I will not get technical in this post but will rather try to explain ABS has been explained to me, or what I have read about it online, etc.



There are two layers to the Amniotic Sac (sac that the baby floats around in and develops in during pregnancy). During the pregnancy, one layer of the sac can tear or rupture; either due to trauma or for no reason at all (I'm sure there is one but maybe I have yet to learn about it?). When the tear repairs itself, bands can form and drop down into the amniotic sac, where the baby is floating around and forming in. These bands are very similar to rubber bands. I was once told by a Mother of a baby with ABS that the bands are very sticky. When the baby is floating around, extremities (fingers, toes, arms, legs, etc.) can become attached to the bands and the bands can wrap around extremities and slowly cut off circulation; sometimes causing amputation. In Kyla's case, a band wrapped around her lower forearm and eventually resulted in full amputation.



ABS is also what causes cleft palate (bands can become swallowed by the baby), and clubfoot.



In Kyla's case we had no idea about her ABS until her birth.



I look at my ultrasound photos and wonder how her arm amputation was not caught in the 4 ultrasounds that I had during my pregnancy. I could not tell that anything was wrong by looking at the ultrasound photos, but I do not have a trained eye, and Kyla is my first baby. I did not know what to look for, or what to expect, or what is routine. Throughout it all, I had a strange intuition that something was going to be wrong with her. I remember being extremely nervous for my first ultrasound at 18 weeks and the relief that I felt after the procedure was over when I asked the ultrasound tech if everything looked good and she said "yes."



I did not realize until just recently that the ultrasound techs cannot their patients anything about their evalutation - good or bad, and are trained to practice their "poker face." It is the doctor's job to deliver news to their patients - news that was not delivered by my first OB/GYN doctor. I eventually switched doctors at 30 weeks gestation, but wonder if my first doctor was aware of the situation, and chose to not tell me, or if he just did not review my ultrasound notes. Dude needed to retire - let's just put it that way! :)



Some of you way wonder, why 4 ultrasounds? I was told that the ultrasounds were needed because of my low weight gain. I gained 10 pounds during my pregnancy, so they wanted to be sure that the baby was okay. She was until the very end, when I found out that my placenta had died. It stopped providing her with the nutrients that she needed to thrieve. Kyla was born weighing 5 lbs. 12.8 ounces and was very healthy!

Amniotic Bands can also become wrapped around the abdomen, head, umbilical cord, etc. and result in miscarriage or stillborns.

Why I Created a Blog for Kyla

My name is Amber Vance. I created this blog for my daughter Kyla, who was born with Amniotic Band Syndrome on September 5, 2009. I decided to create a blog for Kyla to 1) share her story 2) network with other mothers of children with ABS 3) create more awareness of ABS.

Kyla is a few days shy of 6 months old. She is an extremely happy baby and is an enormous blessing to myself, my Husband, our family and friends. Kyla's ABS is "more severe" than other's. She was born without half of her left forearm and hand. She has her elbow and half of her forearm. On the end of her arm, she has some "nubbins (this is the technical term for them)."

There are several times when I look at my sweet baby and know in my mind that she is going to be an amazing person. I wonder what great things she will do throughout her lifetime and about the people that she will inspire. I know without a doubt that she will surprise many everyday in her abilities to do things just as well as those of us with two normal arms and hands.

I look forward to sharing her milestones with anyone who is interested in reading about them. Whether there is no one interested, only a few, or several....I will share her story.