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Saturday, November 27, 2010

Thanksgiving 2010

This Thanksgiving was Kyla's first 'real' Thanksgiving because last year Mama was sick with Swine Flu and was locked away in the bedroom to be by myself for 7 days.  We only had one stop this year which was amazing because normally between my Husband and I's families we have 5.  With having the kid now, we just can't drag her all around town and it was so nice.  Greg's Step-Mom Linda made an awesome Thanksgiving dinner and we had a great day together.  Here are a few photos (thanks Lesly!).

Our fam:
 Terra, Melanie, Lesly and I:
Greg really excited it's Thanksgiving Day and he gets to eat :)

Monday, November 22, 2010

Trauma

So at random times thoughts pop into my head about things I might not have discussed on my blog yet.  I was thinking the other day and I remembered that I hadn't covered trauma during my pregnancy.  They say that they think ABS is caused from trauma during pregnancy.  I had two instances of what might be considered trauma, but at the time I didn't think much about it. 

The first one happened when I was just barely pregnant, like maybe 8 weeks or something.  It was before I started getting sick and that was pretty far into my 1st trimester.  My Husband and I had asked to babysit my niece for a bit and take her out to ride her bike.  I don't have a bike so my niece road her bike (she was 4 yrs old at the time and still had training wheels on) and my Husband rode his bike and Amber's brillant idea was to rollerblade.  I like rollerblading (my Husband and I used to cover some serious miles when we were dating and we had a lot of fun and it was a good workout).  Anyway so I am rollerblading and my niece decided that she wanted to hold my hand and ride her bike next to me.  So I reached over, grabbed her hand and soon after that she steered her bike into the side of me and I hit the pavement.  I landed kind of like flat on my back.  It was a hard enough hit that it ripped my brand new ski jacket that is made out of pretty tough material in the elbow.  I was fine but my Husband was pretty upset and I'm not sure why I was not smarter to begin with - I guess I thought it wasn't a huge deal I was pregnant and I would be fine rollerblading - I had never fallen before.  I didn't have any problems like bleeding or anything afterward so I just forgot about it.

The second occurance was when I was about 5 or 6 months pregnant and where we used to live we had some younger neighbors who we were friends with and I was outside talking to the neighbor guy and his dog who was a mastiff puppy (but was giant) was outside running around chasing our dogs.  Well this puppy was just that, a puppy that was clumsy and didn't watch where he was going and he was pretty wild when he played with our dogs - he just didn't realize how big he was.  So he was running after our dogs and I was talking to the neighbor guy and my dog ran past me and the Mastiff was running after her and ran right into my legs.  My legs came out from underneath me and somehow I was able to get my feet back under me so that I did not hit the ground.  The hit hurt though, because I'm not that big and this dog is giant and was running full speed when he hit me.  My toe got cut up and was bleeding pretty good from the dog's nails so I went inside and put a bandaid on it and laid down on the couch.  My stomach did hurt after this and for what I remember to be a couple hours.  Not horrible or anything, but kind of felt like cramping.  I cried a little because I was worried that I was going to like go into labor or something and told my Husband that if I did that she probably wouldn't make it because her lungs wouldn't have been fully developed by that point.  LOL, oh the joys or being prego and emotional. 

So there ya have it.  That was the only "trauma" I experienced during my pregnancy if it can even be classified as such.  Definately not like some of the other parents of children with ABS that I have talked to who have been in car accidents when they were pregnant, and that kind of thing.

Friday, November 19, 2010

Ain't it Funny...

how often times you stumble across the perfect thing at the perfect time.  If you've followed my blog, you'll understand what I'm saying.  This made me cry.

http://www.christianpost.com/article/20101108/man-without-limbsi-need-god-for-more-than-arms-legs/

Ministries|Mon, Nov. 08 2010 12:20 PM EDT

Man Without Limbs: I Need God for More than Arms, Legs

By Michelle A. Vu|Christian Post Reporter
A man born without limbs said he needed God for more than arms and legs at the Harvest event in Seattle on Sunday.
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(Photo: Harvest)
Nick Vujicic, a man born without arms or legs, speaks to Greg Laurie about how he can still be joyful in Christ despite his physical state, at the Seattle Harvest event on Sunday, November 7, 2010, in Seattle, Washington.
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(Photo: Harvest)
Some 15,000 people attended the Seattle Harvest event at the Key Arena on Sunday, November 7, 2010,in Seattle,Washington, o.
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Nick Vujicic, a Christian motivational speaker, said he gave his life to Jesus Christ at the age of 15 when he read the story of the blind man and Jesus in John 9. When people asked Jesus why the man was born blind, he said it is for the works of God to be revealed through him.

“He healed the physical body of the blind man (in John 9). But what I said to God is, ‘I don’t know what your plan is, but I trust you. I need you not just for arms and legs, [but] I need peace. I need forgiveness. I need purpose,” said Vujicic, president of the non-profit Life Without Limbs, to Greg Laurie at the Seattle Harvest event.

Vujicic, who was born with no arms or legs, shared his inspiring story to a crowd of 15,000 at the Key Arena in Seattle on Sunday. More than 93,000 people watched the event online and 1,692 accepted the invitation at the end of the night to commit their lives to Jesus.
Over the three days of Seattle Harvest 2010, 39,000 people attended in person, 162,717 watched the webcast, and 4,225 made decisions for Christ.

The Australian born motivational speaker, who has inspired thousands of people worldwide, shared that when God does not grant a person the miracle they prayed for (Vujicic had prayed for his arms and legs to miraculously grow), God can perform another kind of miracle.

“God can still use you to be a miracle for someone else to bring them to the truth and knowledge of Jesus Christ,” he said.

Earlier in the evening, Greg Laurie, lead pastor behind the Harvest Crusades and senior pastor of Harvest Christian Fellowship in Riverside, Calif., addressed the question of why there is suffering in the world. He said humans, in the broad sense, are responsible for the problems we face in the world today. The illnesses, disabilities, and death are all a result of sin, he said.

“The general tendency is to place all the blame for all of the problems and suffering of humanity on the shoulders of God,” said Laurie, who went on to state that everyone is born a sinner. “God gave us the ability to choose and our first parents, Adam and Eve, made the wrong choice in the Garden of Eden,” he said.

Vujicic, who has learned to overcome bitterness over his physical condition, left the crowd with a message on how to be happy. Some people say they are not going to be happy until they get married, have a job, save up money, or have more friends, said the author of the new book Life Without Limits.

But having those things will not necessarily make you happy, he said.

“It’s not about the outside. It is about being complete on the inside,” said Vujicic. “Because I have seen so many people complete on the outside but who don’t know the truth. It is the truth that sets you free and who the son sets free is free indeed.”
The Seattle event was the last Harvest crusade scheduled this year. The next Harvest event will be in Auckland, New Zealand, in June 2011.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Fall Fun

We took Ky and the dogs to the park by our house this past weekend.  Kyla went on the swings with Mommy and ran around the park.  She also helped cleanup leaves at our house in the afternoon...  but not really, she just attempted to eat them and thought it was so funny when Macy (one of our dogs) kept pulling the leaves out of her hand with her mouth.  Weekends are good days for Ky - she gets to spend the majority of her time lounging around in her PJ's.  She is not real happy about getting ready to go to daycare at around 6:30 in the morning everyday so on the weekends she has comfy days. 

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

SO SO SO Excited!

I am a very happy Mama right now!  I can't elaborate more until things are finalized but it is great news for me, my baby and my family.  I really was dreading today at the start, like sick to my stomach dreading it, but I tried to tell myself to stay positive and that it couldn't be that bad.  It wasn't, it was in fact great!  Excited for the future now, looking forward to what is ahead.  One things is for sure, I need to get me and my family back to church!  With all of the remodeling and busyness our summer entailed, we drifted away from church and it hasn't been good.  Definately need to get back and get to where we belong!!  I have been feeling lately like God is making my life pretty much miserable for a reason and it is because I have not been living the way he wants me to.  I prayed lastnight for today to go OK and it has been better than that.  There are some decisions to make, but last night, I was sitting at the computer trying to figure out budget for our family and trying to make the best decision for everyone involved and I just felt like we were in a no-win situation.  Well today has changed all that.  Things are going to be good.

BTW, my blog is allllll kinds of messed up.  I tried creating a .com website for this and I knew I shouldn't have.  Miss Doesn't Know Anything About Computers attempted to know something about computers and it didn't work out.  Not a surprise.  So I'm working on getting it working, but of course, isn't a big priority.  Ahhhh, today feels good.  :)

Monday, November 8, 2010

Hello!

So I know some people read this blog...  Um, well not a ton, but I do get blog hits from all over the world - mostly from the US but some from other countries.  Originally I created this blog for my baby, as I have stated before.  It is really for her to read and look at when she gets older.  I'm one of those weird people that wonders, what if I were to pass away some day?  My baby wouldn't even remember me!  I want her to know how much I love her, and I want her to see these stories of others who have already batteled the same issues I'm sure she will battle, to get inspiration from them and to inspire others herself.  I want her to know how special she is and be aware of the great opportunites she has in her future.  I want her to know that she can do anything and everything she wants and to not think of her situation as being a "disability."
So who out there other than my family reads this?  Do you yourself have ABS or know someone who does?  I am all for networking with others who have or are experiencing the same issues we are.  Contact me or comment and share your story.  Even if you have not been affected by ABS, feel free to get in touch with me to ask questions or share your opinions or whatever it may be.  I know only a handful of people who have children with ABS and all of them do not live in the same town as us.  I get excited when I meet someone who has this, or knows someone who does.  I finally saw someone in my town who was missing just their hand and the amputation looked to be caused by ABS.  It's neat to know others out there who you can connect with...  so, don't be shy.  I would love to hear from you.  Thanks for reading.  :)

Saturday, November 6, 2010

Just Something Funny


I made tacos for dinner last night and had Kyla in her high chair, trying to get her to eat some of it.  I gave her her bottle that had PediSure in it because she has really not been feeling well since she got her flu shot on Tuesday morning.  My poor girl looked miserable but still smiled every now and then.  Anyway she was playing around and not wanting to eat and she quirted herself in the face with her bottle.  Cracked me up and we were able to get a picture in time.  She is so funny, makes me laugh so much everyday, especially now that she is getting older and has more personality.  I had to share.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Well Check & Shots at Dr. D's

Just returned from Dr. Del Los Reyes' office for a well check and vaccinations appt for Kyla.  Before I forget her stats I wanted to record them down real quick, here they are: 

(3 days short of 14 mnths old)
31" long
20 lbs.
15% for weight
75% for height

Dr. D recommended that we give Kyla PediSure because she weighs so little - we told her about our struggles with getting her to eat real food; how she prefers baby food and will only eat a couple bites of regular food, so she suggested we supplement with these.  Cracks me up.  Dad said that if she ain't my kid then he doesn't know who is.  True.

Dr. D also noticed how much of a busy-body Kyla is, she said "wow, she just goes, goes goes!"  She said she is very active for her age and that is probably why she weighs so little.  Thank the Lord for someone confirming to me that our child is ACTIVE!  I thought maybe they are all like this.  If I had three that are like her all at the same time, I'd probably die after a few weeks of being their sole provider 24/7.  :)  Love the girl none-the-less.  Dr. D also noticed she has an attitude and told us to be very consistent in the discipline and ways to distract her into thinking that she is getting her way when really she isn't - I'm learning.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Good Description of ABS

Halloween 2010

Here's my girl in her bunny rabbit outfit.  She was really upset at first because she kept pulling her hat off and we were making her keep it on.  She also threw a fit over me trying to paint her nose on her.  My little drama queen.